Accept Yourself As You Are Design

Everybody has flaws in them and having flaws is nothing wrong but not accepting and loving those flaws is wrong. People will judge you always, some will judge you based on your skin color, some will judge you based on how you style or dress up, some will judge you by looking at the way you walk, and some will judge you by looking at your hairstyle and the list goes on. No matter what you do, where you are, how you do things, which things you do, and whom you are with, people are going to judge you. What you have to do is let them do their work of judging you and you do what you love to do and what makes you happy.

Being appreciative requires a healthy dose of self-acceptance. When we fully accept who we are, including all of our flaws, defects, mess, weaknesses, and occasional deficiencies, we accept how Allah created us.

We have stopped contrasting our experiences with others. We willingly accept who we were, are, and will be in the future. We gratefully let go of the things we are powerless to change. Instead of concentrating on our problems, we count our blessings.

Doing things that make you happy and ignoring people who are judging you and trying their best to push you down so that they can make more fun of you is hard but you have to do it because they are never going to stop judging you. Some people love to see you struggle and in pain and that’s why they always pinpoint flaws in you but you have to understand that having flaws is not wrong, everyone has flaws. You have to accept your flaws and love your flaws. You have to accept yourself as you are designed.

We release ourselves from any weight that looms over our path, we absolve ourselves of all our past transgressions, we strive to make wiser decisions, and we reconnect with our memories to draw a lesson from them.

When you acknowledge that you choose not to let other people impose their will on your life and manipulate your emotions, you are at peace. Your ability to choose your conflicts has improved, and you have discovered that your inner peace comes first and foremost.

You are beautiful, you are glorious, you are brilliant, you are intelligent, you are extraordinary, you are strong. Love your flaws and burn the people who can’t accept your flaws by showing them that you are proud of your flaws. Don’t stop working hard, don’t stop working for your future, don’t stop being good, don’t stop growing but also don’t let anybody push you down and tell you that you are not beautiful, you are not glorious, you are not intelligent, you are not strong. Love yourself, love your flaws, and the world will adjust. Accept yourself as you are designed and the world will adjust. Don’t adjust or change because someone wants you to change, change or become better because you wanted it because you wanted to be better than today you are.

In the end, we will say that you should be the way you are. You don't have to change yourself for someone.

Written by : Anmol Dheer

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