Being breathless not physically but emotionally

Nowadays technology is increasing but our thinking is not. We wish our thinking could change along with technology. Even today, many parents think before the child is born what he/ she will do in his life. We children are not even asked what we have to do. We do not ask children what they want to do in their life. Just parents put pressure on the child that you have to do this and this is our decision. And that poor child takes the pressure and starts doing that work. We do not say parents are wrong, but nowadays there are many new professions. We should ask the child in which line he has to go. Parents should support the child and not put pressure on him.

In earlier times, people used to die from some disease. But the death of today's generation is due to taking pressure.

Because nowadays the competition in every line is so much that what the child should also do. And parents need only ranker in their house. Only doctors and engineers are needed in their own homes.

In earlier times people used to be happy. But look at today's generation, whoever asks how you are, says that there is a lot of tension.

And if the child does not know how to handle the pressure, then he commits suicide because he does not get any other option. Later people say that we were with you telling us your problem

But when a child is in trouble, no one is with him. later everyone comes.

It is so hard to express your emotions especially when you are feeling so down emotionally and then also you have to smile in front of everyone. It feels like there is something stuck in you because of which you can't breathe and can't say anything also. For some people it's so hard to express their emotions but it's in their nature and it's common but not able to express your emotions when you are dealing with some mental issues it's rare.

People think having mental issues means the other person is crazy but it is not the truth, having mental issues is a really big thing. You never know what the other person is going through until you put yourself in his/her shoes. It feels like choking to death when you can't express the flood of emotions you are having in yourself. You feel like you are dying little by little with the flow of emotions going in you. It's not like you don't want to express your emotions but it's more like you don't want the other person to feel hurt or bad because of the emotions you are going through.

Sometimes expressing your emotions can make you fall in trouble too and can ruin many relationships also as not everyone can understand you and your emotions. But sometimes it's good also because the people who can't understand you and your emotions don't have to exist in your life because the fewer people there are, the less drama and the good life. It's not necessary to have a large number of groups but what's necessary is to have genuine people and understanding people.

" Try to understand people because one day you are going to need someone who understand you ".

Written by : Ishita Khana

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