Words left unsaid

A Flood of emotion goes inside a person every time and specially when they are facing some issues in their life . A person only share his problems and worriers to that person whom they really trust and know that they will understand but when they don’t understand it hurts, it badly hurts. We expect from a person that they will understand us and when they will not then we stop sharing and gulp the flood of emotions going in our life and in us.

We don’t let the other person know what we are hiding behind our smile because we know no matter how much we express our emotions and hard times nobody is gone listen to them even nobody cares. When nobody is there with you in your hard times and you are one of those people who make sure no matter what happens you understand the other person then it hurts, it really bad hurts.

Some things are better left unsaid, this includes anything that someone might take offense to, anything unkind, or hurtful should not be said. There are other instances where speaking up and saying what is on your mind and in your heart is vital and could make or break relationships that you have with other people.

I have gotten better with time, but I am guilty of not always sharing what I should be. Don’t get me wrong, I definitely stand up for myself, maybe a little too much sometimes, but I do struggle with sharing what’s on my mind with others and I have ended up in some bad situations because of it. Communication really is key and is highly valuable and important. Every situation where we feel like we have not done all that we could have, or we feel that we could have approached the issue in a better way, helps us grow and learn.

There are lot of hidden emotions and feelings in our life which we hide easily by pasting a smile on our face. There are so many things we want to say but something in us hold us and stop us from speaking those words. Those words which we want to say but couldn’t able to say make you feel choke that you can’t even able to breathe.

Some people get into depression and even want to do suicide as they couldn’t express their emotions and feelings. It’s not that they can’t express, it’s just there is no one to listen to them, there is no one who will understand them. Sometimes a person only needs other person to listen his/ her heart out without giving any advice on how to live life or any other thing as it’s easy to give guidance or advice but it’s difficult when you yourself face that situation, that time you know what the other person is really feeling when he/ she was expressing their emotions and feelings.

‘Understand other person feelings and emotions before you get yourself in their place and understand. It will be so late then’.

Written by: Anmol Dheer

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